Jayboywinks

Let's see I am a man that does not necessarily fit a readily categorized mold by any stretch of the imagination. I am is passionate about the outdoors and the environment. I am highly competitive, but almost always pull for the underdog. I love playing sports, working out, watching soccer and basketball, I love learning, seeing, tasting, hearing, and doing new things. Embracing the dynamic nature of life is really part of what makes the whole thing fun.I am passionate about many things all animals yeh, yeh, yeh and I still eat meat, part of my paradox I suppose; the outdoors- mountains, trails, ski slopes, beaches, underwater, on the water, you name the environment and there is a pretty good chance I am ready to be active outside there; Not here to lie about anything, not sure why some do but I cannot change the world (however I am the type that thinks women and men our age should know what they want out of life)

What I look for in a woman? She should possess a compassionate and gentle heart coupled with a strong, self-confident demeanor. A great smile and infectious laugh are a must. She should be physically fit and attractive to me -not to everyone-necessarily.A woman who is not afraid to be herself, not afraid to grow and learn constantly, not afraid to speak her mind, definitely not afraid show affection and never afraid to do the right thing is what attracts me. She should be someone who is willing to treat herself and those around her – from family members to bathroom attendants- with kindness, respect and dignity. Someone who loves to laugh and still enjoys an intricate more cerebral discussion is golden.

I crave openness, honesty, and straightforwardness. Life is too short and way too wonderful to play games- unless they are really fun of course. Give and take is a must in a relationship. If it is all one or the other it is not a relationship, its a prison sentence.