I'm a Canadian moving to China in April 2011 an excellent cook who plans on opening a western style restaurant and I'm looking to find myself a Chinese beauty in both mind and body.
I want from her to be above all other things..
1. HONESTY .. if you are not being honest ...you are wasting my time.
2. BE YOURSELF .. if you are PRETENDING to be my ideal woman ...you are wasting my time.
3. Mature and of moderate temper, if we have a disagreement lets talk about it like adults not like angry children fighting over a toy.
I will NEVER yell at you, intentionally hurt you, break your possesions or call you bad names nor will I tollerate an angry woman yelling, calling names breaking things or acting like a spoiled child.
If we can not peacefully settle our disagreements then it is better not to hava an agreement at all.
If we can not be happy together then we should not be together.
I have dated very pretty women in the past and have learned first hand..that I don't care how pretty you are or think you are...if you have an ugly personality... it ain't happenning.
4. Intelligence, I like smart women so please don't hide your brain thinking it will scare me away.
education is not intelligence... intelligence is not education.
intelligencve lets you beconme educated faster and with less effort.
If you do not have much education i will help you become educated, pay for school etc. but only if you are intelligent first.
A smart woman is sexy.
I want a partner i can discuss religion, politics, art, math, history, science etc. with. .. intelligence is something you are born with, either you have it or you don't; education only helps you focus the ideas you already have.
I want a woman who is more than just a sex toy, I want her to be my companion and therefore my equal in all ways possible.
Beyond the basics i have already explained, I don't want to describe my ideal woman too much because I do not want somebody pretending to be the ideal woman just to get married have a kid and take off her mask... then expect me to just put up with a miserable marriage until the day i die... my ex wife did that.... It didn't work for her... if that fact scares you away.. it's probably best we don't go any farther anyways.
The only thing I am asking for at this point in time... is complete honesty, intelligence and mental maturity.
Please be yourself and do NOT cater to my desires.
I want my wife to be happy to be with me and that can only happen if she enjoys the things she does instead of doing the things she pretends to enjoy simply to make me like her enough to get married.
If the feelings are not real the marriage can not last.