Does true love still exist??? I am hoping so
I am looking for a serious Long Term Relationship, something that will last the test of time.
About me: I am a 31 year old guy, I have been told more than once that I am not like other guys out there as I am not a big drinker (I do smoke sorry), not into the nightclub or bar scene if I do go to bar I like quiet ones where you can hear what is being said by those with you or a bar that has good live music, dont fallow football or any sports really. For me I would much prefer to go to the cinema, have a nice meal, go for a walk or stay in with someone special and cook something for them, watch a movie or dance around the living room together, by the way I not the best dancer in the world but there is just something I love about it.
My friends say that I am a good and down to earth kind guy with a good sense of humor, but you can be the judge of that. I am very loyal to the people I care about in my life and work hard to help them when they are in need if I can. I have traveled a fair bit in my life so far and enjoy learning about new cultures and seeing new places. I have lived in various places around the world and I find if you want to really know a place spend 6 months and you will learn its true heart.
I love art dont know enough about it but I do enjoy it and I know what I like, my favorite Artists would have to be Henri De Toulouse Lautrec & Vincent Van Gogh, I dont know why but their art just draws me to their work. I train in various Marital Arts mainly chinese Filipino Arts, have done since I was 6 so 25 years and counting, it keeps me healthy and in shape and I do teach a few people here and there. I write poetry not great at it but it lets me get my feelings out, I know it is not seen as a very manly thing to do but I enjoy it and it has helped get me through some hard times in the past. I love all kinds of music to be honest but really enjoy the Rolling Stones, Johnny Cash and Frank Sinatra once again just really enjoy listening to them and if I truly need to just chill out abit of the Blues or Jazz and I am a happy man, most of the time I listen a good mixture of rock, blues & some 60's,70's and 80's tunes.
I am around 5ft 8" tall, have short dark brown hair that looks black at times and my eyes seems to change colour all the time but most people say they are green. I have a stocky build but in good shape so I have been told. I have a few tattoos on my arms but nothing too crazy but have a few more I want done in the coming years and I have a bushy beard at the minute, normally I do have a beard but keep it kind off short and well trimmed to a point but it is not a manicured kind of beard I just not that kind of guy. I am kind of old fashioned in many ways and like to look after my family, friends and the people I care about. I am looking for my one and only, the person I can spend the rest of my life with and create a family with, I work to live not live to work as the saying goes, but I want to be able to come home and spend time with my other half, spend my time loving and looking after her and the family we create together, I want a partner in life someone I can share myself with and them with me, I have been heart broken before but I am still hopeful that I can find my soulmate who is out there somewhere.
And my education OK I never went to collage but I believe that travelling itself can be a great education in life, I have met and talked with people from nearly every where and I try to learn something from everyone if only something small and meaningless to everyone else, I read alot and love watching good documentary's about nearly anything. I was raised in a traditional Irish Catholic family and would still say I am in many ways but I have studied Chan Buddhism and various sects of Taoism in China with Monks & Priests and also learned alot from friends of mine who are native american and their approach to the beliefs they hold dear, But I still attend Mass every week, I have read many books on religion in general but I dont believe in getting hung up on it! as a Buddhist monk told me once and I try to live by "who cares if you fallow a religion or not if you live a good life that is all that matters do as little harm in this life as you can" and that is want I do, but I would say for me I have deep spiritual side but it is not something that I push out there and push on others it is simply the way I believe and that is it. Many people find it crazy that me a guy that has worked security since he was 17 years old, studied Marital Arts since I was 6 truly hates fighting with a passion but I do, I will not claim that I always was like this, at one point I could have been said to be a bad guy, but I have changed my life alot. Nowadays I truly hate fighting now, this does not mean I will not fight if forced too but it takes alot to get me to that place now and I have learned to work around it really rather than go there. I am a meat eater sorry if that is a deal breaker, I just enjoy my meat and always will do, I grew up where I learned about meat where it comes from and to respect all animals, I am abit of an animal lover grew up with dogs, goats, horses, chickens & other animals around me so I truly love to be around animals but dogs and horses would have to be my favorites.
Sorry for the essay there just wanted to give a good overview of who I am but if your still reading that is a good sign right?
Well I hope to hear from my future dancing partner in life soon :)