How about instead of my hobbies, goals and aspirations I tell you what I can offer and what I'm looking for ...
I would treat you as I want to be treated, you need a foot rub at the end of a long day then that's what I'll give and that is also what I'd like.
If you are stressed or if I have a headache and need a shoulder/neck massage - that should/will be what's given.
Someone to vent to.
I want to be your best friend and I want you to want to be mine.
I want to spend time with you as I want you to want to spend time with me.
I want someone to walk with and someone to talk with I want someone to share my life with.
I want you to want to look good for me when we go out as I will always look my best for you.
I want you to want to smell good for me, again, as I will do the same for you.
I don't need someone in my life, I want someone in my life.
Please treat me like the lady that I am. Don't ask/expect anything rude or sexual, I am not here for that. I am a lady and I expect to be treated with dignity and respect as I will do the same for you.