nels4

I am a very down to earth man looking for a caring, lovely, understanding and serious soulmate to grow old with. I'm looking for someone who has a balance of qualities, a sense of humor, is easygoing, and intelligent. I need to be able to have a conversation with you but also be comfortable in the quiet. I think a couple should complement each other while still keeping their individuality. I am a HUGE sports nut (giants/yankees/rangers), and to me Sundays were made for football and i do like to do few sports too. I am also slightly obsessed with country music, so if you can listen to it without vomiting that's a definite plus. I'm quirky, smart, snugly, funny, adorable, weird, happy, laid back, and very independent. I've lived alone for the past year, and have been very happy. I'm looking for someone that will add to the happiness that's already there :) I have no patience for ignorance, stupidity, or games. Some people think I'm mean, good people know I'm real, and love me for it. I'm also super honest, so whatever you want to know just ask (as long as you actually want the answer). I think life is all about learning: about others, about the world, and about yourself. I am very reflective, and actively work on bettering myself, but I'm not looking for someone else who wants to improve me. Self-improvement is just that...SELF improvement. I think relationships are about finding someone who just naturally makes you want to be better.