Looking for something authentic and real. Love without boundaries and love without conditions. No games no agenda just REAL uninhibited connection and emotional intimacy. The dating thing is new to me and I am just getting back out there so I may be a bit conservative at once in testing the waters with anyone. I love a great conversation over wine and some good food. I think intelligence and intellect is provocatively sexy in an individual. If you are also entrepreneurial in your endeavors that's great. Its important that there is compatibility there sexually and personally. It does not have to be at 100% but think of it as a more cumulative thing. The package so to speak that everyone is looking to have, the whole enchilada is out there. It probably wont be at a 100% but it should be dame near close enough that each quality contributes overall to that higher percentage. Couples can be opposite in some areas, yet match in core values and it would work. I think having and open mind and understanding to this makes that connection work. Remember we all are at different levels of maturity and experience in our lives. We are always a work in progress, I think when you are with someone it is important to grow together, all to often people grow apart..It means to say you have to have a genuine care and love for your partner that is beyond your personal thoughts. Supporting each other in differences like this..is a powerful thing. When couples stop learning from eachother, that's when they start seeking it elsewhere either by means of chasing it or attracting it into there lives.
I love spontaneous outings, movies, dinner, concerts, karaoke and anything that is different. I am not hard to please in that regard. I am very upfront about my intentions and chemistry between myself and that person. I expect the same from you. Quite frankly just tell me after the first date, if you would like to continue further or stop it right there. I don't beat around the bush and say one thing and do another. Nobody likes to be played around with like that.. so lets not. All mature consenting adults here right? Perhaps its going to be a one time connection, friendship or something long term. But whatever it is be honest about it. We should all know when to respect honesty when we hear it. I prefer to talk to truth and nothing less of it.
I'm on my journey towards shamanism working with energy and consider myself intuitive & spiritual. I consciously understand and identify with all things metaphysical. I do also come from a background of Christianity. It does not bother me if you come from a different religion as long as there is respectability and understanding from both sides. Coming out of a 15-year marriage which ended up more as friends last several years. I have lived the last 15 years in different parts of Europe and recently moved back six months ago to the U.S. I am a creative and a homebody at heart. I love nature and spending my time connecting with it. I like taking community classes doing things that cause me to create an inspire within myself and other people. I tend to be a very private and selective person when it comes to the people I have around me. I consider myself and intellect, intelligent, ambitious, bold, direct, compassionate, sensitive and non judgmental. I am sure about my decisions and choices in life and actively pursue my ideas and interests mindfully aware I am creating out of direct intention. I just don't exist in life, I intentionally live with purpose. I work from home full time with an online business and recently got in to jewelry design.I have a dog she is a rescue and she is apart of my package.
::Type of partner I am looking for::
A sense of humor, that never goes out of style. Someone who understands vulnerability and sensitivity and is able to ADD to the other person not change them. Emotional & Physical intimacy. Its all about connection. All the fundamentals are just as in important.If you can communicate well with me, your already in consideration. I think communication is vital. Your slow to anger and quick to problem solve. Trust is HUGE with me.
As a side note:I am a curvy girl what you would call a bbw That's not for you that's okay, good luck on finding your person here.