I m a very down to earth kinda guy, easy going, I have a good friendly personality, not a pushy or rude person, I don't drink, non smoker, I m a widower live most of my live in New Orleans, moved to Mesa Arizona about a year ago from Vegas. Now live in Apache Junction. On social security and work. I do live alone my own apartment. I m non materialistic, I do work to make ends meet and not looking for anyone to support me. Have a lot of good friends here just not a good female friend I can fix just about anything, even enjoy cooking. I have traveled around the world USAF not really interested in doing that again but wouldn't mind seeing more of the USA. Been more of a blue collar worker most my life Aircraft maintenance and fire control systems. I m a veteran USAF. Neat dresser, not necessary a neat freak but like things neat. Enjoy animals but don't have any. I like to cook, movies local travel USA, history, museums, fee market, auction, the arts and more. Have one grown child son lives in New Orleans. I do work like I said helping men and woman that have substance abuse problems and are trying to rebuild their lives. I m also in recovery Sept 7 10 years sober. I m not prefect have my faults but who is ? I m very open minded, understanding, caring.. like to find that one special one to be with, do thing with..settle down with ..my best friend and open to straight or bi woman..I like a woman that can be herself, a woman that doesn't dwell on the past, the past is the past learn from it then looking to the future, also like a woman the open with her sexuality and knows what she enjoys and can be open about it.