Here's a cool guy living in lovely Amsterdam english speaking :o) I'm looking for a safe but intense relationship with a serious and honest opponent. You are probably also looking for mutual affection and fiery desire, where two unique people meet and evolve, both together and separately. I thrive on gender roles, has no use for either your or my release in order to feel valued and respected when I want to be loved, valued and respected just for that all important difference, which means you are a woman and I is a man, each with our respective strengths and weaknesses. I am turned on by femininity, warmth, charm, thoughtfulness, style, humor, intellect, even irony, creativity and confidence. I expect that you also have learned from past experiences and are able to / and at least strive to manage them in a constructive way. Although I am a very rewarding person, I am also affectionate, charming, communicative, easy to steal a smile from, playful, very sensual, solution-oriented and very loyal. You, like me, want to have a great boyfriend We are conscious of the fact that it will take efforts, you probably have desire and ability to commit yourself. I love kids, big and small.