I love a confident man who can make me smile.Someone who enjoys music thrill and enjoys life past material things. A man who pays attention to the sensual aspect of women and aims to please physically as well as stimulates the mind. Sex is not the most important thing but without the chemistry i've found relationships are bound to fail. I love spontaneous men the act of showing that they desire you i am very affectionate and love a man who is same. a kiss is my weakness... Oh and by the way I love men of all races and have a weak spot or irish, black and men with deep southern voices.