I am Jula, I am 5;9 in height and I work out to keep feet. I have being in two relationships, one was my high school love who actually had to travel out of town to pursue his education and the other was a man who had problems with drinking. He wasn't like that at first, until he lost his job and couldn't contain his divorce So you see i am not looking for a man who is trying to get a divorce or is seperated and cannot control his life. I need someone with full control of himself and can take care of me as I will him. He became a monster and even if my step brother was a hanful, I had to leave with him after the relationship ended. So I am with him now, a house with limitations.
My father is dead and my mom cis a drunk who is married to another man, I and her don't speak...Sort of a crazy world we live in but we have to move on. I have got some inheritance I have no means of collecting because of certain reasons, so I am hanging out with a friend, she knows about all this. I know someday it would be okay. I have being completely single for 2years now and until now, I thought it was the best. It's never the best when you are alone and the world drift pass you without meaning. I am not one for a non-committal companionship, I like getting to know someone, love and believe it would all work out. I am sorry, don't mean to startle you about me, I just want it in the clear so you don't meet any surprises.
I love to draw and listen to music. I find solace in art, the movement of colors, its all so divine to me. I sculpt too but not proffesionally. I am taking some art class and work as a waitress. I do some charity work too. I don't drink or smoke and don't care if you do as long as it isn't an addiction. Some guys look cool whilst they smoke i have to admit. But I am scared of all the uproar about cancer. I have my sister in the hospital having treatments on that. Mom is taking care of that anyway, but I help from time to time. hmmm, now I have gone on too long about me, my likes and my family.
I would love to know if you are still interested and we can move on from here.
Hugs.