I'm almost uncomfortable with answering this; don't want to offend anyone, but I will try. Tall dark and handsome may be my dream, but my idea mate is a man that loves and knows the Lord and loves himself. A mate that understands the power of love and isn't afraid to show that he knows. He doesn't have to be rich, but able to sustain his own life without outside help. He doesn't have to have a fancy car or expensive clothes, but be true to who he really is.