joydiv

I think of myself as an honest, caring, and passionate man, who is very goal oriented. I'm determined not to just settle for what life has to offer me, but to seek out what I want out of life and find that companion who seeks the same. The future can not be predicted, but what is even greater, is to make it whatever we choose it to be. I do not think it is quite that important to state what I am looking for in a mate as much as it is finding the woman that would bring the following feelings out of me. I would love to be able to be myself, open up, and give wholeheartedly in the following ways: Call her at just about anytime throughout the day to let her know I was thinking of her; to give a surprise hug from behind with a soft kiss on the neck with words of affection; indulge ourselves over a quiet candlelit dinner (whether at home or out at a restaurant); cuddling up in front of a cozy fireplace or just watching TV or a movie with a bowl of popcorn; pamper and give her a soothing massage especially if she has had a stressful day; hold and stroke her hair while she is falling asleep on my chest, especially on a rainy day or night or when there is a great breeze through an open window