harmonyventure

Hello to a special lady: I am a widower as I lost my wife to Covid about a year and a half ago. I was faithfully married for several years and helped raise six children who are all adults now living on their own. I have not dated for a long time but I am now ready to look for a sincere christian lady for friendship and we may discover what could develop. I am an easygoing, friendly, happy, honest, sincere, caring, faithful, trustworthy, romantic, secure, and conservative with traditional values but open minded, and understanding Christian man. My Christian beliefs and my moral code are most important to me and reflect positively in my behaviors. To me Ephesians 5: 21-33 means that it is my duty to discover and fulfill the emotional, mental, physical, and other needs of the lady I am devoted to; to give of myself to please her and bring her joy and happiness which then gives me happiness to see her delight. It is also my duty to discover how I may avoid her stressors and which particular positive behaviors I should implement to relax and calm her when she is stressed or uncomfortable. These are some ways to show love to the special lady I will be devoted to.

I shall seek to discover the interests of the lady I am with so that we may share these interests together for our mutual enjoyment and relaxation. Her interests should be more important than my interests. I do enjoy fine restaurants, picnics, and romantic interludes. I enjoy different new challenges and adventures with intellectually stimulating conversations, traveling, exploring, hiking, bicycling, horseback riding, boating, fishing, swimming, snorkeling, camping or glamping, and many other outdoor and indoor activities besides reading, research projects, and hobbies. I enjoy being in the forest and by streams, rivers, lakes, and the sea. Even some deserts are beautiful at certain times.

A quite evening at home watching a romantic video of her choice can be enjoyable and I shall also enjoy other activities of her choice. I am healthy with a full head of hair and have passion for staying active in both mind and body. I regularly cycle bike trails, recently climbed a 6,000 foot mountain and cut down drought damaged 150 foot tall timber (removal of dangerous trees).

I admire anyone who enjoys healthy food selection and cooking. I have no adverse addictions as I believe them to be detrimental to my spiritual, physical and emotional well-being. I believe men and women are equal but different and harmonious decisions are best achieved through consensus. I define cooperation as working together in harmony to achieve common goals. I believe in and attempt to practice, compassion, empathy, respect, integrity, kindness, appreciation, affection, responsibility, reliability, cooperation, and other appropriate inter-personal skills. I can adjust myself to another person but I can’t expect to change them except please be aware that I cannot be with any person with addictions to alcohol, drugs, or smoking. I am college educated and a business manager with flexible hours. Sorry, no photo as my limits & boundaries preclude web dissemination for possible nefarious purposes. Not browned eyed but resiliently handsome to the right lady. Yes, I have written too much, but know that you, the mystery lady, shall be more important than I. I shall treat you as a lady but when you choose, to fulfill your needs as a woman.

I have traveled extensively and have discovered with which personality types I am most likely to have exciting harmony. A Christian lady who is a Aries, Sagittarius, Leo, or Libra born in the years 1968 through 1973 will be the most likely lady with whom she and I shall have synergy, with our thoughts, words, and conduct in harmony. Mystery lady, I challenge you to explore new horizons with me to see what may develop.

I can be very compatible and in harmony with an Aries lady as I enjoyed a happy successful marriage to my Aries soulmate until her death. If you are a Aries, Sagittarius, Leo, Libra, Gemini, Scorpio, or Capricorn Christian lady born after December 1961 without addictions, are caring and sincere, with compassion, empathy, and are romantic with traditional values, you could have synergy and harmony with me, and I challenge you to explore new horizons with me to see what may develop. I can be friends with Aquarius, Pisces, or Virgo women but any romantic relationship requires many adjustments and much compromise, and I am incompatible with Taurus and Cancer women.