greentea40

Hi:), I'm Zach. A little about me…

I'm a very young 40 divorced for 3 plus years, share custody with my 7 year old son, BA, employed, love working out, reading, movies, sports, shopping (yeah I said it), just having fun, in general

I'm a very down to earth person. Life has simultaneously hardened and softened me; I don't take life too seriously most of the time and am very laid back- unless I need to not be laid back. I like to have lots of stimulating and interesting conversations, but I also savor silence in life- I'm ok with quiet. Sense of humor is paramount and so is being able to appreciate the "now." Would love to meet someone like-minded:)

My 7 year old son is number one in my life. I share custody 50/50. Relationship with ex is very, very good. Your kids, if you have any, will also be a priority for me and I already know that they are number one with you. I am very comfortable with this and parenthood, in general. I was a stay-at-home dad for 3 years with my son (from the time he was 3 months old) as I was finishing up college, so I know the deal.

Going out is cool- but so is ordering in, watching a movie, and being alone together. I'm extremely passionate and love to be completely connected with you. Physicality, in general, is a very big part of who I am. I love to workout, be active, and connect mind with body- very affectionate and touchy, tactile type of person- need to connect with you on a physical level, as well as mental/emotional, or it simply won't work.

Not into bar/club scene and actually do not drink at all, but for you, I don't mind if it is just social drinking. I'll go with you to a restaurant or bar and watch you toss back a few :) Don't want to be around drugs at all, though. Been there, had my share, and escaped in '99.

Not into meaningless hang out- I'm 40, not 20. Yet, I also don't have any predetermined, rigid agenda, in terms of needing to be married soon, or anything like that. As far as free time, right now I tend to be very busy with work- but I do have some free time and would like to spend it with one special person... maybe a couple of times a week or on weekends and such, at least for right now... Guess I just want to see what happens:)