My new house that I just bought is my hobbie....bank repo/fixer that is in real good shape, I got lucky.. Cancer survivor for 10 years now. You just don't know how strong you are till you walk away from a death sentance.I listen to country and oldies for the most part.I love to dance: slow, fast or swing.I love to cook as well as be cooked for. If you cant cook...better know how to load the dishwasher. I am a member of the ELKS Lodge in Ontario and love my family there too! I work as a kitchen and bath designer and enjoy my work. I was widowed in Jan of 09 but recovering from that very well. I just keep surprising myself. I am very strong willed but at the same time tender hearted. I am not your typical girly girl, dont have my nails done every week and hate to shop. I work and play every day in my jeans and thats the way I like it.Don't get me wrong I can(and do) dress up for the occasion.I enjoy holding hands and sunggling.PDA'S are ok just not over the top.I still like the car door opened for me (yep old fashion I think the sexiest thing a man can do is whisper in my ear. I enjoy flirting with my man from across a room and he knows what I'm thinking. I'll be waitting to hear from you...go ahead you can do it...write me.I don't care what you do for a living or how much money you do or don't make as long as you are happy in what you do. Update: My new theme song is I'm Alive by Celine Dion.Planning on a trip to Oregon and Washington this June, and later in the summer/fall Vegas/Kansas,would you like to go with me?