My new house that I just bought is my hobbie....bank repo/fixer that is in real good shape, I got lucky.. Cancer survivor for 10 years now. You just don't know how strong you are till you walk away from a death sentance.I listen to country and oldies for the most part.I love to dance: slow, fast or swing.I love to cook as well as be cooked for. If you cant cook...better know how to load the dishwasher. I am a member of the ELKS Lodge in Ontario and love my family there too! I work as a kitchen and bath designer and enjoy my work. I was widowed in Jan of 09 but recovering from that very well. I just keep surprising myself. I am very strong willed but at the same time tender hearted. I am not your typical girly girl, dont have my nails done every week and hate to shop. I work and play every day in my jeans and thats the way I like it.Don't get me wrong I can(and do) dress up for the occasion.I enjoy holding hands and sunggling.PDA'S are ok just not over the top.I still like the car door opened for me (yep old fashion).I think the sexiest thing a man can do is whisper in my ear. I enjoy flirting with my man from across a room and he knows what I'm thinking. I'll be waitting to hear from you...go ahead you can do it...write me.I don't care what you do for a living or how much money you do or don't make as long as you are happy in what you do. Update: My new theme song is I'm Alive by Celine Dion.Planning on a trip to Oregon and Washington this June, and later in the summer/fall Vegas/Kansas,would you like to go with me?