I seem like a pretty normal" (whatever that means) guy on the surface, but underneath and within I most definitely challenge some of our cultural norms. So if it's a traditional, vanilla guy you're looking for, you might do best with checking out some other profiles here. And if you're looking for a strong, successful, honest, trustworthy, masculine, chivalrous, etc man you should know that I am all of these and more. I am strong alpha male who is sometimes weak, I am mostly successful and sometimes fail, I'm honest yet still catch myself being less so sometimes, and am trustworthy but an occasional disappointment depending on your expectations, To me, loving someone unconditionally means loving someone no matter what, no matter where they may land within these polarities at any given moment. It means loving a human being and not a set of rigid ideals and stories and expectations that exist only in our minds. It also means loving on those occasions when we're not getting what we want. This is what I'm ready to work to do when love requires it, and while I can be with someone who is not doing the same, the whole thing is a damn sight easier if this is happening mutually.