Yesh2018

I am an ex defense person and currently working in insurance and finance sectors as a service provider for Home Loan, Mortgage Loan, Personal and Business Loan. I grew up in a Middle Class, Nuclear family. I have 2 sons aged 29 & 26 respectively. Both are post-graduate and employed in Pune. Elder one is married and younger one is about to get marry I have grown up at Pune and now again I am planning to shift over my residence to Pune. First let me clear that I am not widower divorced or awaiting for divorce. My problem is little bit different & complicated. My spouse is a follower of Bramhakumaries spiritual group Omshanti (Prajapita Bramhababa Ishwariya Vishwavidyalaya) since last 16-17 years. Its might be spiritual for them but it has spoiled my family life. They pass the message of peace and pureity. As per them a man should keep himself/herself pure by the way of keeping them away from sex, anger, temptation and jealousy. Even should not have non-veg, garlic, onion etc. A unmarried Girls and boys should not get married and should remain unmarried to keep purity. A married couples should accepts their relation as a brother-sisters relation and accordingly they should maintain the purity. So she has got very impressed by groups spirituality and started following the same.....

Since last 16-17 years she has made me to maintain brother-sister relation with her. Looking at my responsibilities towards my both sons education, even I didnt thought of steping into 2nd marriage by taking divorce from her. Keeping the family sustainability and humanity in mind, instead of getting separated from her I had allowed her to stay with us under one roof to perform the responsibilities towards our sons. Still we are residing together. Now I am feeling very lonely. My life is completely without happiness and enjoyment.