I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone from anywhere but living in or near Gibraltar.
I value building a friendship first and letting things develop naturally.
I'm drawn to men with a bit of old-fashioned gentleman energy -- thoughtful respectful and naturally protective in a quiet, caring way. I love the idea of classic romance: proper dancing, good conversation and little gestures that show consideration.
Good communication is really important to me. I value someone who can truly listen as well as share his feelings, and isn't afraid of emotional honesty. Patience means more to me than bravado.
I believe one's partner should be their best friend, so, I'm looking for a real partner -- someone who enjoys doing life together, from housework to fixing the car and little projects; one who sees a relationship as a team rather than two separate worlds. Someone who is mature but can allow their inner-child through, to enjoy innocent fun. One who has a sense of humour and can appreciate wit and "dad jokes".
I'm also drawn to people who are open-minded about spirituality and alternative ways of understanding health and energy. I'm curious about things like meditation, acupuncture, herbal medicine, EFT tapping, and other ancient or holistic practises, and I'd love to learn more about them with someone who already enjoys that world. I'm not dogmatic about it - I would just enjoy exploring ideas about energy, consciousness and well being, with curiosity and a sense of wonder, with my partner.
I secretly, (OK... not that secretly) love Star Trek; (bonus points if you do too but not a requirement!) It makes one think about life in a deeper way; plus -- makes my inner geek happy.