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What makes for a perfect match? Expectations. The wider our search is, the more we're open to possibilities. The more rigid we are, the smaller our scope with the possibility of missing out on meeting some amazing people. If we focus on the bad, we'll find it at every turn. We sometimes need to step out of our comfort zone and take a chance on people. We look at love in very different perspectives. A man loves a woman and to him, that's pretty much all that matters. Women dig more deeply into compatibility, character, looks and a whole range of values that men sometimes find difficult to fulfill and many give up trying for good reason. But even as we say that we won't settle, we most certainly do. We've settled many times for someone whom we thought was

" the one " only to land on these sites looking for another roll of the dice. Such is life and the sooner we realize that relationships are much more than matching interests and looking pretty, the sooner we'll find that special someone who will hopefully enrich our lives. We may even find something that resembles happiness. So to sum it up, it's all about expectations and attitudes. " Just be yourself " is never enough. You may not be palatable to the one you admire. Just remember that we can't always get what we want. We get what we're able to negotiate for. And that takes time and effort.