Never married no children. Three girlfriends in my life, one of which I still have contact with but nothing beyond kind words. She is, however, special to me and always will be.
I have been out of the new friendship/dating scene for a while because I really do prefer to get to know someone very well before anything goes further and I am quiet and reserved and difficult to get to know. I'm not in any way unfriendly or cold however. I did work 15 years in hospitality industry!
Nevertheless, I have always done this in person and not online but time rolls on and perhaps it's time to give online a try.
I am a very open-minded in most things, but I will say I dislike severe body modifications and unflattering tattoos. Any gender-bending surgery or the like and I will make like a bakery truck and haul buns outta there.