Octhare

Are you looking for someone to share the quiet life? As we get older it seems difficult to meet someone. How do we take that chance, to get to know each other, to start a new loving relationship?

My personality is easy going friendly warm, open, caring, also careful, reserved, and mostly quiet. The contemplative, discerning, thinking, philosophical INTP type, also very playful with a dry sense of humor, but serious minded.

Without trust, a couple has nothing.

I do not like conflict and argument; I don't waste my time being possessive or jealous. (Well, maybe enough to show you I care)

I believe love will grow with mutual respectful attention, some common interests, and a desire to make each other happy. It can happen if we can laugh at our differences and just hold and support each other and try.

For successful relationships: both people need respect, a sense of humor, a short memory, forgiveness, and Horizontal Happiness.

If you don't mind that I am not young and pretty any more, and not rich send me an email and I'll respond.

My favorite things are picnics, concerts, and walks in the park, grilling some food at home on the BBQ, exploring nature, watching movies at home, river rafting, fishing occasionally, target shooting, archery, tilting at windmills, bicycling, gardening, and going to museums. I like Folk and Classic Rock, Celtic, Blue Grass, Classical, Grateful Dead, and Leonard Cohen.