I want someone with standards, like myself. Genuinely nice, kind, chivalrous, respectful, spontaneously exciting, intelligent, educated common & book, active in self goals - short & long term, not always super busy, not looking for perfection, fun, funny - makes me smile & blush, loves music, loves to dance, and likes plush full figured women who can cook. Hopefully you can too..lol. If not, i'll teach you. Overall, a friend who can be honest and truthful about their identity-inside & out. I'm a lady and it turns me on to be treated like one.