I believe a man likes a woman's touch, her gentleness, her softness, her tenderness, her kindness, her grace and her wisdom. A woman likes a man to demonstrate courage, inner power, strength, confidence, trustworthiness and good character. All peppered with a delicious bit of love. Starting with these qualities would surely be a good foundation for a sacred union. How this comes about is the exciting part of these kind of sites. Now........ how good is that????
I do not adhere to religious dogma, rituals or doctrines. I believe in the metaphysical and supernatural beliefs, reincarnation, practice holistic remedies when necessary, meditate and pray daily, vegetarian, avid reader of spiritual books, study health and nutrition, former yoga teacher......I do not watch the news, read the paper or follow current events and no---I do not have my head in the sand. I live a very simple life and do not need the bells and whistles for my comfort i.e., fancy clothes,expensive jewelry and gifts, or elaborate vacations or cars. I believe in the service to mankind and try my best to honor that. Life is wonderful, life is good. With positive thinking one can truly enjoy the fruits of life.
What am I looking for? Well, for starters I don't believe there is an ideal match. We are all unique and so very special and no one person can be matched to another. No one is to "complete" me or vice-verse. No one is responsible for my happiness--that is my job. A person is to compliment the union, not cripple it. A partner would be a beautiful soul that knows himself and has a spiritual core that drives him to love all and try his best to be of service (in any way possible) to mankind. And then enjoy life as it is suppose to be--fun find love cherish it in every moment as this gift was a blessing. Life is also humorous and not to be taken so seriously. I come from a family of keen wit and laughter and what joy that has been.
I,--- like just about everyone on this site with a few exceptions, want the same thing--to find our beloved, to cherish and enjoy a fantastic love and life together....how exciting to walk this path with another, to share his joy and happiness, to grow in spirituality with him, to experience life thru his eyes....to learn how to be loved again and accept this with no inhibitions or conditions.....to feel the yearning in your being when you are apart.....to feel the reason for waking in the morning and knowing he is there.....to love with your heart, your soul, your body, your inner being.....to know that emotional intimacy is as important as physical intimacy....to grow in oneness ....to give totally.... to be safe and to feel free.....Yes, this is the "sacred union" we all aspire to....but, first, have it within self....then know that your togetherness is valued and genuine.....
Hey, now that all the serious "stuff'" is out there lets get down to the nitty gritty. This Universal Catalog of Dating, does it really work???? Color me old fashion but I like to "see" a person instead of trying to get turned on by a seductive email or profile.or a thumbnail picture. This 21st century technology of meeting someone is quite overwhelming. I haven't dated since the Beatles came off the airplane. And I am shocked at how one has to write an autobiography just to get a response from someone. The soul searching that goes into one of these sites is time consuming-----but then, since I am not dating (there's that word again) I do actually have the time. Pretty hard to write one of these profiles without going on an ego trip and I really didn't realize I was so great until I put it all in print,(ha ha)--but who else is going to write my perfect composition???? Yikes, isn't it a blast going into our golden years? Funny, I sure feel like I just had my 40th b-day, but the mirror tells me differently. Hey, lets grow old together, better yet, lets get young together. I'm around if you want to drop by.
chami