My ideal - tall white non-smoking man with charisma. If you are kind, clever, charming and generous man with sense of humor - probably, it is You. Send me few words and we shall look what will be. :-)))
P.S. If you don't have pictures in your profile, don't waste your time. You write to somebody mostly, if you like, what you see. Why I must reply to Mister X without picture? Or send me privately a link to your pictures in other place, if you're interested to continue communication.
I think it will be fairly for each of us, right?