GaidenVXL

I'm a type 1 diabetic. I have been for 30 years now. I used to be ashamed of my disease but not anymore but I just wanted to put that out there.

I’m originally from San Juan, Puerto Rico. I speak both English and Spanish.

I’m currently separated, since June of last year and we stated the divorce process at the end of December of last year. I was in a very toxic, traumatizing and abusive relationship. I used to live in Tennessee, after we got separated I moved temporarily to my mother s house in Florida until I can pick myself up and continue with my life.

I’m extremely shy, an introvert, I get kind of afraid of interacting with people, I over analyze everything and everyone. I don’t know, I guess I’m kind of weird and my soon to be over marriage has scarred me for a long time, I’m not kidding, that’s why right now I’m interested in just being friends. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have a relationship again or find someone to be in a relationship with, and I’m more than fine with that. But if I have someone again, I need to take my time to know the person or should I say, each other better so I don’t make the same mistake again. I’m 45 years old and I’m not getting any younger, so that mindset that I will someday find the perfect one for me has sailed many moons ago but you never know, life is life.

But of course, I’m an eternal romantic, so who wouldn’t love to find that person that loves you for who you are, that will be by your side good time and bad ones as well.

I was in love twice in my life, years and years ago. Even in marriage, I’ve never felt that I loved anyone else again.

The other thing is that I have met very few sincere and true people on sites like this. Nowadays, people only care about the other person’s outer shell or the persona that they want you to meet.

So please, be yourself, I promise I will be completely open as well.

I’m looking for a friend to talk to, it doesn’t matter the country, it would be great if we would share some interests but that’s not a deal breaker for me. To tell the truth, once the divorce is finalized, I’m thinking of traveling, possibly I’ll move to a different country. I feel that I need to find something or someone I’ve never had in my life. A home, a place to belong.

Love video games, ever since I was little, that’s something that will never go away. ?? im a huge nerd and I love everything technology. Love movies but I’m a freak for horror movies, it’s weird that my grandmother would take me to rent any kind of horror movie I wanted when I was little. I love reading but I’m not doing it that much at the moment. I watch anime as well. Love listening to music, the higher the volume the better. Love traveling, love to visit historic sites, love history. I love long drives, specially when driving out of state. Love coffee and I can drink it at any time of the day, of course I love Starbucks and the possibly put crack in their coffee. ? Love everything paranormal and definitely love ghost stories. ??☠️☠️☠️???

I’m also a homebody, sometimes I just love to be home all day watching movies. Most of the time, I’m a night owl, it depends on the day.

I like any kind of music. I love listening to foreign music, I love mostly Japanese music the most.