My ideal mate is someone that just wants to be happy. A women that takes care of herself. She's intelligent and a survivor. Capable of deep philosophical conversations, but just as content to be goofy and have fun. She would like the latest music releases and not stuck on the old stuff so much. She would be unashamed of her body and, like me, want to enjoy it while we can. She would be very much my equal, but also happy to role play in any direction that she or I am curious about. Ultimately I just want a woman that wants me as much as I want her.