I am a 51 y/o african-american woman, who is seeking a true loving relationship with that one special man. The relationship that I seek has all the aspect of a vanilla relationship with the love, caring, passion and romance, but with that wonderful twist of the power exchange role reverse that comes from the female lead relationship. I am a woman who loves being in control of most things within the relationship, that is just who I am. I am the oldest of five and I had to look after my sibling when my parents was away, telling them what to do and how to do it, and if they did not do as I order it, than they were punished. So being in control is not a game or an acting part for me, it is part of my characteristic. I have a job where as I am also in control and having to lay out structures and orders for my co-worker and I love it. I love it when people needs me to tell them what to do and to have that same type of power within my relationship, to me that is priceless. I love the female lead relationship because you can express just who you are and people in this lifestyle understand where you are coming from. You can explore all types of things, that most of society view as being kinky but we view it as a part of who we are and what turns us on, without being judge. Although we are adults, we can explore various role playing to keep our relationship very interesting. I am truly seeking a long term relationship with the possiblity to move forward for marriage.