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Meet CJT: dating single American man from Hawaii Waipahu (Oahu)

Age: 45 y.o.  Zodiac sign: Cancer

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At this point in my life I try not to create unreasonable expectations of people. If we are attracted to each other then for me it is as simple as this:

Do we have strong communication? This can only happen with a conscious effect and hard work.

Are we totally honest with one another, even when it's uncomfortable to do?

Are we enjoying each and having as much fun as possible?

Is there passion?

While these things are pretty simple, they can be kind of hard sometimes but if they are there.... Duck soup.

I love forward to the path ahead.

Not to seem like a snob but I don't have any reservations about chatting with mostly anyone but for anything more please live on Oahu, Hawaii.

United States
25 - 55
153 cm (5' 0'') - 187 cm (6' 2'')
  • Friendship (friendship and communication; correspondence)
  • Dating (Short or long-term relationships, commitments and monogamy)
  • Casual dating (Non-stressful hangouts that occur before you decide you actually want to get serious)
  • I don't believe in long distance romance as it takes 2 really amazing people to be successful and I am not that amazing.


I am a pretty simple guy with a very simple life. I love great conversation, music and learning new things. Relationships can be very simple but are always hard, especially if when done wrong. I believe everything boils down to meaningful, interesting and above all honest communication. So many factors can make any relationships seem amazing in the short term but if the communication isn't solid, neither will be the relationship long term. After that my expectations are pretty easy.... I don't really have any. Go with the flow and the rest will work itself out if there is passion and effort. I look forward to the journey. Aloha

178 cm (5' 10'')
117 kg (260 lbs)
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yes, living separately

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Some College/Life
a "night owl" like to stay up late
  • career
  • well-being
  • family
  • long-term relationships
  • go for a walk
  • read
  • be on my own
  • surf the Internet
  • Play guitar, educate myself about many areas
  • Cars
  • Arts
  • Cinema
  • Computers and Internet
  • Cooking
  • Psychology
  • Traveling
  • Photography
  • Learning
  • Pop
  • Rock
  • Blues Ethnic
  • Rap
  • Classical
  • Smooth R&B and Metal
  • Walks
  • Swimming
  • Working on it....

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