The "operative" word here is IDEAL, right? What I want, and what I get, are two different things. So, since I am not "perfect", I don't have too many pre-conceived notions about my LIFE PARTNER...other than...from the outside in...I hope that she is pleasant on the eyes. I hope that she is not too small, or too large. I hope that she has a kind face, and kind eyes. I hope that she smiles easily when she sees or experiences good things. I hope that she isn't afraid of the water, or animals. I would hope that her hands are soft and nurturing. I hope that she is respectful...i.e...gives respect. I hope that she is attentive, but knows when and when not to be. Spiritually, I hope that she is well grounded in faith, love, peace, forgiveness, faithfulness, patience, gentleness, and process a natural inner joy. All, of which, there is no law against having those attributes. We all can get excited about stuff, but a contentious person is very difficult to be around. Everyone should have an opinion about all things, but be willing to calmly listen to other opinions and be willing to compromise, if need be. I am a red-bloodied Alpha Male. I like girls who like to be girls. These days, femininity is a commodity. So, is it too much to ask for an even-tempered female LIFE PARTNER? Am I destined to go to my grave without meeting the one I have been praying for, for years? God forbid. Help me find you on this planet.