57, not athletic — but still able to open a door for a lady… or even a tramp 😉.
I like to joke around because fun helps keep the dark away — at least for a little while.
Now for the part that probably makes me an SOB in some people’s eyes: I am married my wife is 17 years older than me, and over time her interest in intimacy has faded. She also worries about getting hurt physically. I tried to reassure her, but nothing’s changed. After 8 long years of faithful abstinence, I’ve made the very difficult decision to look for a casual but monogamous side partner.
That’s my truth — take it or leave it.
I’m very open-minded and not judgmental. Thin, heavy, handicapped, single, married divorced a grandma have kids, don’t have kids — I’ll talk to anyone. I just miss feeling connected.
What I’m looking for: someone to talk to, get to know, and maybe share some much-needed intimacy if the connection is there. I’m not interested in a short-term non-committal companionship. I want a long-term friend — someone to laugh with, confide in, and care about, even if the physical part never starts or stops later.
We’d start by talking remotely at first, taking the time to really see if we’re compatible.
I believe I’m a good man (stop laughing 😉). If you’d like to find out, send me a message.
