I'm a listener a bit of a dreamer/drifter. I worry because I am slow at building relationships and that people think I'm not interested in them. I say what I mean & mean what I say unless it's going to hurt someone. I do'nt tell people what to thing and I do'nt tell them, that's why I've always preferred talking to women. You think differently to men. I have always preferred older women they are normally more confident self assured & assertive. I find these qualities very attractive and the way a girl moves - it's the first thing i notice. I smile a lot - it's positive for me and other. Smiling laughter and music a glass in my hand in a nice bar with happy people is my idea of heaven.