AlterSt

I strongly believe that partner should be a partner in all senses of the word. Shoulder to shoulder. Real friend and soulmate first of all. Equality in making decisions. Profound and sincere mutual respect. Person who shows by word and deed he do cares about the partner. If I break the leg, he will be there for me both emotionally and practically. If I am scared he'll find a safe corner for me. If I lost my SO he'll find a words of consolations. That's what I see as a natural moves on my part and I expect the same from my partner. I am not impressed by alpha behaviour, wellbeing, ambitions, career achievements. I highly appreciate creativity, gentleness and commitment. I'm pretty openminded and respectful to all atittudes and cultures but I'm seriously questioning my ability to build relationships with person who has children or has muslim background because the gap in mentality would be significant. I fully understand your concern about fale profiles here, but I am in the same boat and not going to provide personal information to the strangers or makes video calls (I'm extremely uncomfortable with calls and videochats even with people I know pretty well), sorry.