Firstly, I want a man who is wise and sensitive enough to understand why I do not post my picture on line. And secondly, I want you to know that, while I do not stop traffic any more - as of yet, I haven't cracked a camera lens.
And I did cause a little traffic accident at 20 just by walking the sidewalk - but I'm not 20 anymore....damn it all....
Hard working, self-reliant, sensitive , sense of humor, loyal and expect loyalty and honesty in return - very important- but I also like lightheartedness. The atmosphere of my home and of the people around me is very important - I want happiness in whatever shape or form that takes. Oh yeah, I know how to do sad and miserable - I just prefer the other.
I can be a forty-seven year old frumpy mother of four young adults and I can be someone a (hot) twenty- five year old tries to pick up Self-employed, self-sufficient but by no means rich. I am a dreamer by nature and have produced four dreamers in my wake - they are loveable and worthwhile people with character. I am extremely open-minded but also extremely stubborn. I listen to reason, most of the time. I can lose confidence in myself fairly quickly but when I remember my self-worth I come back with determination.
I was raised by a European couple(my parents), along with a whole army of siblings. When I was old enough to do my own socializing - I remember feeling extremely degraded because my boyfriend had to finish watching a sports game
before we could go to dinner. I have since become more open-minded but this gives you an idea of where I come from. I still don't understand why men have to stand when the pee.....?
Dating at 19 was crazy uncertain times and, at 47 years, there is so much more to consider than "Do I look o.k. in this outfit?".
So, give me something honest to consider - and I honestly will.
Jaymaha