My emotional side is most predominant in my character and needs.. Sexual tendency is just a culmination of this need only .. On the contrary, most women associate sex with lust I guess. Last year I went to a massage center .. a guy massaged me, and I began to hold his hand and bless him financially.. he broke down , and thanked me... saying I am very unlike most other women.. it was then when I understood myself regarding this important aspect. I need a deep emotional connect .. which I could not find with most guys due to their relatively cold nature and needs. I view the life and the world with artistic specs .. rather than mere logical, which most of the world does. Why I liked you? Why I got connected to you? Why I believed in you? 1) You have to be intelligent .. quite! 2) sensitive .. there are lots of guys out there without sensitivities.. 3) You got to be slow, poised mature 4) You have to got that real gentleman appeal.. 5) As a bonus, I found you pleasant looking .. that innocence ..
I know what I bring to the table so trust me when I say I'm not afraid to eat alone I am a feminist, gentle, passionate about social justice. I am looking for stability and reliability with someone who gives me butterflies when I see or think about him.
I want to be with someone who misses me when I'm not around.
I have to know that when he tells me something, he means it and when he says he will do something that he will do it. I offer the same thing so I expect the same in return. I'm an extremely affectionate person. I require high amounts of attention and affection.
I don't do drugs of any kind and I don't want them in my life.
I'm also really sensitive to drunker but smoking is okay...sorry. I've tried being with someone who drinks and it just doesn't work long term. He became abusive due to his alcoholic addiction. Guys who drink excessively is a turn off for me.
Some say I'm a paradox because I call myself a feminist but chivalry and true gentlemen make me weak at the knees. I truly believe that women haven't yet achieved equality and I will get on my soapbox about this subject but I do not believe that I can't be a feminist and feminine at the same time. Looking for an extraordinary gentleman to give myself to as I hope he will give himself to me. Yes, I like to be made to feel special, feminine and spoiled but I am a quality woman with a lot to give in return. I believe in equal contribution to relationships.
Words have the power to make me swoon.
I am hopelessly romantic and like beautiful words and beautiful surroundings.
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