ben111

I am a confident, caring, secure, successful, outgoing, fun, affectionate, passionate, loving, sensitive person... , I enjoy being a gentleman.. I am happy person; I do have a somewhat cynical and sarcastic side, never mean, and always fun.

Really I enjoy what life throws at me and will not let the roller coaster ride slow me down. Great career and am still very focused, motivated and ambitious. I Love to go out, love to stay in, concerts, cook a nice meal together, watch a game, watch a movie, go to a coffee house.

My search is for someone attractive with a great smile and a good heart. I have never had kids and would not mind someone with kids. Everyone tells me what a great dad I would be. I would like to be friends first but definitely with a long term relationship in mind. If you really don't have time for a relationship then please pass me by. I think face time is very important for a relationship and would expect to have some priority (not always the lowest) in between everything that is going on in your life. Being alone is not who I am and it is time to start the next fascinating phase of my life. Part of the excitement will be to share it with that special someone. Hope to hear from you