Sweetnsoft

Who am I? I am strong, independent, wise beyond my years, slightly mad, cheeky bold, sweet and affectionate whole lotta woman. Interested in philosophy, religion, the reason for our existence, spirituality, reading, sewing, photography, looking outside squares (I prefer circles!). I like to cook especially for those I love. I like to laugh and have a good time. I love nature and being in it. I like to nurture and grow things. Children, Animals - I am a big supporter of helping create a world where there is no exploitation of animals. I don't eat red meat and I struggle often with eating any farmed animals. I would much prefer to have my own cow and make my own butter and cheese, some chickens for eggs and bit vege garden and live gently with the earth. Would be OK with home kill, but not a fan of beef or pork...so it would have to be lamb!

I'm OK to look at - nothing fancy. I'm bigger than I would like to be, but I am working on that and I still love myself regardless. I guess you could say I'm a bit of a non-conformist...as in, I like to question things and make my own decisions...I don't roll with the crowd and I don't follow fashion. I don't get my nails done and go to the hair dresser about once a year. My idea of looking after myself is not drinking or smoking and eating whole nutritious foods. I don't mind the odd tipple and I have been known to be a bit of a wild card when I over indulge ;D I like to push boundaries and cut the bullshit. I don't put too much importance on social expectations. I don't care what people think - it doesn't have to be about that. You can be polite, respectful and kind and behave like a lady when I need too! But generally speaking i prefer to live without conforming to old meaningless obligations and don't give a rats ass about the Jones'. I accept people for who they are and I expect the same in return. I don't do manipulation neither do I serve it or accept it. I'm completely happy being on my own and seek company to enrich my already satisfying life with someone that I can share special times with and snuggle. I don't do big drinkers/ people that abuse their bodies or the earth. I can't stand road ragers and people who complain all the time! Someone who is positive, accepts responsibility for everything they feel and experience in their life would be great - but most of all their own happiness - this person knows and understands that love comes from within themselves not from another person. They don't take life toooo seriously but at the same time they know there is a bigger picture than what we can see. They live simply but fully, treat woman with the utmost respect, protect her and value her.. In my view this is a "real man" and I will in return give all I can to be the woman that fits beside them, a best friend, and confidone that's on the same team.