CFrances

I have no idea of my weight in Kg or lbs I know it's generally between 7and half and 8 stones - if my usual clothes are getting a bit tight then I'm puting on weight, too tight I've gone too far! I'm, curvy, hopefully in still all the right places! Though I'm not adverse to the odd bulge in myself or others.

I've no children,not through choice, just too late when I realisd it wasn't happening naturally. Obviously, my brothers' children and cousins etc have filled a bit of the gap & work with UNICEF etc as well as locally. I have fostered and am still in touch so that's great too.

I did and ocassionally do revert to smoking! And by the way alcohol is a drug, Probably one of the worst. Sorry, I went to Winckley Square so got really well educated about drugs!! Ad naseumn as they say but I never indulged that much.

I have just spent well over 6 years, actually its probably more, in a relationship where I ended it only to have my "partner" keep coming back and insisting that we couldn't leave it like that. He wanted to buy a home together etc..

Last night, for the 1st time in ages (I've checked now so it was 8 months- don't get me wrong we'd being seeing each other most weekends & I/he was staying over after my mothers by-pass) he'd wanted to go out. It was a work Xmas party but he didn't want to drive back. So,he would book into a hotel - my counter offer was I'd rather just get a taxi back. So . .. we've split up.

If you are a bloke that thinks I will or can dump my other responsibilities for you - please do not apply. I am definately not for you.

Athough genrally really affable nice I am feeling very hurt and vulnerable at the moment so some care please.