BayArchitect

This is not a conventional dating proposal. It is more of a job offer that may lead to a romantic relationship.

I am primarily looking for someone to run my house. The woman and her children will have a free place to live and I will buy the groceries. It will be a family setting. I am not messy but I do not care for house cleaning so that will be one of your primary duties along with some cooking. I enjoy cooking as well so that duty will be shared. Since I will be living in a country other than the country I grew up in, she will also be my main interface with my new country and neighbors. She will also be the hostess when I (we) entertain.

This relationship may or may not develop into a romance and a committed relationship. I am not opposed to one but given the age difference I would not expect or require a romantic relationship. I am a loving person and would always treat her with the utmost respect.

I am looking for a woman who has no husband in the picture. The laws are such in the Philippines where often the wife is left to her own means to raise children after the husband leaves. I am in a position to help her raise her children and she will be ably to save money for the future.

She will be in her late 20s or 30s. I would prefer her to have children since I never had any. My preference would be girls since they are nicer and less trouble than little boys.

One last but important requirement - I smoke and I require that she smoke cigarettes as well. If her children smoke or would like to smoke that would be a plus.